Im working on a coach training certification, and one of the proficiencies Im expected to have mastered is engages in provocative conversations. Now, that really got me thinking.
Whats a provocative conversation?Well, the word provocative means that the conversation provokes somethinghopefully a reaction from the client which helps take them to another level. The ideal response to the provocation is for the client to realize something they didnt know or find a solution they didnt have before the call.When I think about what is required to reach that provocation, I see that the first thing is not just that Im listeningIm always listening. The first thing is that Im HEARING what the client China Non-woven Scouring Pads wholesale has to say.
Because if Im listening with one ear but thinking about my response with the other ear, so to speak, Im not hearing, and if Im not hearing, Im not responding to my client, Im reacting.You can greatly increase the value of your conversations with clients, friends, family and probably even your dog by truly hearing what theyre sayingI need your help with this. Im not doing very well today. Im hungry.that last being the dog. Your coaching assignment for this week is to think very deeply about how you can hear more and just listen lessand then implement those thoughts into your daily life starting tomorrow. Think tonight, hear in the morning.If you have any questions or comments about the magic of hearing, please feel free to drop me . I always want to talk to people whove read my articles and discuss what youve gotten from my writing.
Whats a provocative conversation?Well, the word provocative means that the conversation provokes somethinghopefully a reaction from the client which helps take them to another level. The ideal response to the provocation is for the client to realize something they didnt know or find a solution they didnt have before the call.When I think about what is required to reach that provocation, I see that the first thing is not just that Im listeningIm always listening. The first thing is that Im HEARING what the client China Non-woven Scouring Pads wholesale has to say.
Because if Im listening with one ear but thinking about my response with the other ear, so to speak, Im not hearing, and if Im not hearing, Im not responding to my client, Im reacting.You can greatly increase the value of your conversations with clients, friends, family and probably even your dog by truly hearing what theyre sayingI need your help with this. Im not doing very well today. Im hungry.that last being the dog. Your coaching assignment for this week is to think very deeply about how you can hear more and just listen lessand then implement those thoughts into your daily life starting tomorrow. Think tonight, hear in the morning.If you have any questions or comments about the magic of hearing, please feel free to drop me . I always want to talk to people whove read my articles and discuss what youve gotten from my writing.
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